Life events are events that produce changes in
people's lives that require adaptation.
Brannon & Feist, 2010, p.117
Two of my friends are divorcing and it is not an amicable parting. But even if is amicable, the events that lead to the decision as well as the 'last straw that broke the camel's back' has already taken toll on both physical and mental health of the whole family.
As both adults contend against each other, the children are caught in-between. So much pain and anger - but friends and family members will provide much social support which hopefully will help buffer some of the negative effects of the stressful situation as well as to manage the coming changes and adjustments.
So please excuse me now. It's time to start cooking dinner. The children will be home soon and a warm meal will help bring a sense of calm and routine during this distressing time.
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